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Old Sep 08, 2023, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
That’s so not true. You’re very black and white in your thinking. He invited me to a camping music festival so it’s not a booty call. We’d be hanging out together all wkend. He’s going through so much right now that I tend to want to cut some slack. I would not want to start a new relationship under the circumstances. I want to give it more time and patience to see how this all unfolds.
What I read in all this (and what I read originally) is this is a sure-fire way for you to be on an overnight with him and the possibility is very high you will have sex with him.

Another music festival with the unreliable and unstable music group, where you will likely see your ex-husband again and rip the scab off that sore.

He is also probably working, so again it's very low-effort on his part, you are an appendage to his work trip and somebody to sleep with.

Please, stop accepting these low-effort attempts at outings. Why can't you go to a proper dinner and a movie with someone? This camping ish is for the birds. I don't care how much you like these festivals, these trips never work out well for you.
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