So you're saying I look at men with rose colored glasses? Yes, I see and want to believe the best in people, to a fault. Sure, maybe I get hurt and disappointed that way more than necessary, but I'd far rather see the best than be paranoid, mistrustful, jaded or pessimistic. So, I go too far in one direction and need greater balance with reality and what is realistic. An area of growth for me. I never said I didn't have my own issues to grapple with, work on, and overcome. This is one of them.