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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro
I haven’t read the replies, only your thread introduction. So, my apologies if what I say has been already said.
Jesyka, from this and other posts by you. I got a thought. Maybe I’m wrong.
That’s why I’m gonna ask you a question. Since I think that I’m now have a better picture of you.
Is it possible that for your past, having social anxiety, you didn’t have many social experiences and you feel the need to experiment (in the good sense) testing yourself and testing to know better about where different people may be coming from? That’s why you are not still so picky. Because you are opening you up to experience whatever possibility to interact. Because you need to live this learning now.
Am I wrong?
As for the guy. Well, when a guy send you pictures too often, there are many possibilities that he wants receive pictures of you. I understand that you always give the benefit of the doubt to people. If you are not interested at having some kind of relationship with this guy, I wouldn’t contact him. You already know where he’s coming from.
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I don’t have as much social experience as most people my age. Or as much social knowledge. I don’t have to many people to compare notes with usually.
My parents had terrible social skills. My dad is autistic & my mom has a paranoid personality histronic disorder.
I didn’t have any close friends growing up. I tend to be to trusting for my own good at times. That guy was a good ********ter. He did send me his pic btw. He was this huge middle aged white guy with a walker.
It could be fake of course. I guess that I was to eager to have someone to talk to, ugh. He appeared to be a good caring listener.
He didn’t ask for anything at first. He was a sneaky one.
Unfortunately for him, my b.s detector isn’t totally broken, it.’s just not able to detect b.s immediately sometimes, lol.
It was obvious that something was wrong when he started getting upset with me over not sending him pics & other things.
He was becoming increasingly demanding, frustrated & impatient with me. He was extremely pushy & was asking to do a video chat & then asked if we he could eventually meet me & buy me lunch.
I said no & he lost it then & was like, I’m not going to help you anymore then. I blocked him. What a freak!