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Old Sep 15, 2023, 10:33 AM
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Some people live for their expectations & when those are not met they do become unhappy & dissatisfied because whatever did not go just like they expected. Inflexible people are this way no matter what type they are.

My mom had no self-confidence & was very introvert but she would "try" to make everyone feel guilty & miserable if an expectation she had was not fulfilled. I used the word "try" because it never worked with me. My attitude was always "deal with it since it was your expectation". I was a little kid when I first noticed her doing this & she basically did it till the day she died. There were so many times during my life I didn't get along with my mom....I just chalked it up to that is how she is. Go on with my life & let her deal with it herself.
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