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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro
BubonicPlague’s quote:
“Also, with my mother not allowing for me to hang out or play with other children and judging everyone, it was hard for me to ever hang out with anyone.”
I think this is the key. Once your mother controlled you in such a way, it’s tons of hard to break the walls around you.
Hello, I didn’t greet you first. I wanted to point out the above.
I’m sorry you had such an undeserved childhood and I also wanted to tell you that I understand why you struggle to establish connections with the world outside. I sometimes can’t understand what happen to some mums and dads. They don’t know how much damage can cause on their kids.
How are the things going in therapy? If you don’t mind tell a little bit about it.
I hope you can elaborate your relation with your mother with your therapist.
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My therapeutic services where I'm at are tanking pretty bad right now, and I've been so out of it that for nearly a month and a half now I've been trying to recover from illness. I don't see my clinic until October. But I honestly think so far that services have been unsuccessful for me. I honestly don't know where I'm going while continuing with her, they won't let me go through emdr because I have poor memory issues, and can't even remember nearly three fourths of the things that we've learned. I tried doing therapy with my mom and then the family therapist sided with her and made me quit therapy saying I wasn't ready, but really it was because my mom said she wasn't going to change or do anything to make our relationship better for us, and blamed our problems on me.