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Originally Posted by BubonicPlague
My therapeutic services where I'm at are tanking pretty bad right now, and I've been so out of it that for nearly a month and a half now I've been trying to recover from illness. I don't see my clinic until October. But I honestly think so far that services have been unsuccessful for me. I honestly don't know where I'm going while continuing with her, they won't let me go through emdr because I have poor memory issues, and can't even remember nearly three fourths of the things that we've learned. I tried doing therapy with my mom and then the family therapist sided with her and made me quit therapy saying I wasn't ready, but really it was because my mom said she wasn't going to change or do anything to make our relationship better for us, and blamed our problems on me.
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My bad. I didn’t express myself well. I didn’t mean to work with your therapist and your mother to fix up things with her.
I meant to re elaborate the relation. It’s normal that when someone has been controlled by their attachment figures since a kid, this kid develops dependency on these figures, so it prevent them from having real and healthy connections with others. You named it. Mistrust.
I’m sorry you have so many difficulties to access to a good medical service.