It sounds like your friend has a busy life too Azul? If it’s a short gap, like a few weeks or so then I’d not worry he’s probably caught up in a busy time, 15 months however is more ominous. Birthdays and Christmas passed with no word….

That’s an interesting question, how do I think my friend saw our friendship…? I’m really not sure, she seemed happy and relaxed in my company but maybe she was just acting? I really don’t know. I do think I was usually the one who reached out first. That’s not always a bad thing, I have another friend who I usually reach out first to but she’s reciprocal and that seems like a balance.

I won’t contact her, not after this lengthy time. I think if she’d had any care for me she’d have wanted to know how I was. Simple as that.