Oh yes..... I placated things a lot by playing nice, and saying, "IMMEDIATELY, HOW HIGH?"

So, slowing things down is new and good.

I can actually feel myself changing as a person.

My wife isn't used to NOT being in control. She tried to sell the house while we were in it. I got a call from a realtor who told me she said, the house was going to sell on the timelines she said, for the price she said, and that I would have the house prepped for sale, and would accomodate all open houses and visits.

Um. No.

He said he'd been trying to tell her that and she didn't accept it.

In fact, she didn't accept it that he wasn't allowed to show the house if the occupants that were there declined a visit. He was supposed to just come on in with prospective buyers.

So, she has since told me that she now has two lawyers, one for the divorce and one that specializes in real estate law, and she is suing me for not selling the home, and that she is going to charge me rent for the time that I am living in the home.

When I told her, over text, that me and the kids have nowhere to go, her reply was, "Not my problem." Well.... Yeah, actually, it partially is your problem.

Reality is going to hit her hard.

I still love her. She's damaged, and toxic, and she's not coming back, but I love her.

RDMercer