Dear T,
I had a realization of a parallel between you and my mom, based on something you said about her today, plus your joking about another topic later. I kind of want to share it with you, but I don't know if it will seem like I'm psychoanalyzing you. But it's more pointing out possible similarities between how you and my mother handle certain things, which could explain some elements of that form of transference. And why some enactments might be happening.

I'll ponder it between now and Monday. Along with the question you asked me, about what I'd feel if I got that one thing I wanted, what effect it would have on me. I've come up with a sort of answer to that, but am not totally sure. Hm--I also need to do writing on the memoir, so maybe I can figure it out through writing?

Love,
LT