You’re right. lol! Definitely I didn’t mean at work. I know this environment is toxic per se. I already learnt it. I haven’t asked for help at this environment with a single exception. I put up with some coworkers doing their job and not charge onto me more than corresponding. I know you already know a little bit about it. lol!
I only asked for help once. I asked one coworker who is specialist at assisting kids with learning needs. I asked her for resources to help my nephew with Asperger’s syndrome and her response was that I could go to a certain book shop to see if there were something there.
To be honest, I don’t know why things work that way.