Well. There it is the truth. We told the kids tonight cause she kept pressuring that they needed to know cause they could sense something was off. They weren’t sensing anything.
The truth of wanting to tell the kids so badly for her was only to announce to the world that she is available.
In the middle of the kids crying she couldn’t wait to pick up her phone to change her “relationship status” and announce it with a post making it about the kids. She seriously picked up her phone while holding our youngest to focus on changing her relationship status.
They are seriously crying and trying to hold us and she was more intent on announcing it. She new she couldn’t announce it sooner and risk it leaking to the kids from any other random comment to the kids from someone else. Her telling the kids was all about her.
😭 the 11 year old and 8 year old begged us to try and work it out and not do it. Begged non stop for over an hour.
They kept asking why we won’t try? Why we won’t even try for them? I didn’t want to throw her under the bus and say I’m willing to but mommy doesn’t want to. So I just bit my tongue and stayed silent 🥲💔😔 my heart is so broken for may babies