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Old Oct 03, 2023, 11:29 AM
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Originally Posted by Rose76 View Post
No, it's not. I didn't mean to be so cryptic. I meant it literally. Many of those dearest to me have passed away. I find myself imagining they can hear my thoughts. I say things to them, silently, in my head. I imagine I'm with them, being heard by them.

I think this shows me to be a little kooky. But, then, I see people on Facebook often talking to their departed parents. They post notes to their deceased mother or father, telling them how grateful they are for the way they were reared and how much they miss them. I'm no crazier than them. I really don't get why people post these notes on Facebook. They want an audience to behold how devoted they are. It seems kind of show-offy to me.

Facebook annoys me. Mothers, nowadays, post notes to their adult children, telling them how wonderful they are. They list their many splendid virtues, which always include "how caring" the son or daughter has turned out to be . . . how "amazing" they are. Again, they want an audience to hear what paragons of goodness their children are. I think parents, today, are afraid their children won't love them, unless they flatter them constantly and publicly profess loving them "to the moon and back." It gets on my nerves. Everyone claims to be so "blessed." Sounds phoney and forced. I know I'm a crank. Crazy, too. But . . . there's a lot of crazy going around.
No, it’s ok. I was just confused.
I first thought you were writing in a figurative mode and I was not sure what you meant with ghosts. That’s why I asked. I thought maybe you were referring with ghosts to your bad memories about an event or trauma.

I agree with you. I also talk to my loved ones who aren’t with me anymore, in private.
I don’t understand either this exhibitionism people have with their privacy nowadays with all that stuff of social webs. It seems as if you don’t make public something, it doesn’t exist.
I don’t even have Facebook so you can guess.

I only write here and it’s because I have psychological issues, a common thing with the most part of people here.
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