You're navigating those bumps that come up very well and proactively.
That's an amazing resource to have available at the school. What are the chances of that? It's pretty cool though.
My heart goes out to your daughter. Narcissists, particularly covert ones, leave such disastrous doubt and anxiety in their wake that it's hard even for adults to come to terms with it. Narcissists are so skilled at presenting a good face to the world around them, that victims are often left lacking any real validation about what they've experienced. Thank goodness you, and the counselors you've found, are doing that for your kids- bringing it out into the light of day so that they don't have to doubt their own perceptions and experiences.