Thanks for this! Exactly! The wording matters.. Like if he asks do you want 2 or 3, and you feel stupid for wanting 3 because he just made it a thing. That’s how I feel, once she says it I feel like I shouldn’t want to come every week and I’m pathetic if I do.
I told her I wanted to come next week and I gave a specific reason and she said ‘ok we’ll work on that and then think about giving it an extra week in between’

Like why is this even a thing!? They must have an idea that it’s going to be triggering to clients. I just don’t get it

I will try and tell her 🙈 But I’m afraid of being entitled and pushy and feel like I should be able to handle the perceived rejection and will be showing her how weak I am if I tell her. Then I’ve given her all the power and that’s not good either