So, I've been hanging out with this guy for a little over a month. We've had a bunch of sex so far, but one major complaint I have is we haven't done oral sex, which I love doing. I am puzzled and am scratching my head, wondering if he doesn't like it. I talked to one of my best girlfriends about it who said that's a dealbreaker, if it's important to you. And I didn't even realize until I spoke to her that it IS a dealbreaker for me. It IS very important to me to have that as a part of my sex life, and if he doesn't like doing it, it's not going to work.

There have been a few other bumps in the road, making me wonder if this is the best fit or not. It's a question mark right now, with no conclusion. Overall, we're enjoying each other's company, but a few things have come up that make me pause and question things.

I need to talk to him about the oral sex part and see if it's something he doesn't like doing.