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Old Oct 12, 2023, 05:44 AM
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My ex husband showed up uninvited and unannounced in my driveway last night as I was pulling out in my car to leave. OMG! I haven't communicated with him at all since July and I haven't physically seen him in person in 6 months. So, he decides to just drop in, after I had made it perfectly clear months ago that he should not come by my house uninvited?????

He talked at me for five mins. I tried to tell him I don't want to talk to him about us or really about anything at all. So then he tells me he is getting a cancer screening next month and that he's having some issues. He tells me in his typical melodramatic way that if he dies, he will watch over me. Oh Lordy. He ALWAYS thinks he's going to die! He's SO melodramatic.

I was in shock that he showed up out of the blue like that. He must have been watching me and approached when he saw me leave my house to get in my car. CREEPY! I didn't know what to say except to tell him to get lost. I was angry. I recorded a portion of what he was telling me. Same ole story. He misses me, he's devastated, he knows I'm happy without him and he hopes I live the best life. Then why tell me all this if it's all already been stated? He has said this in his emails several times. Repetitive stuff.

Ugh, I am going to be sick... this week has been brutal for me. I had to say goodbye to my cousin who is in hospice, then I broke up with the guy I've been seeing, and now this?!?? I cannot handle this week right now. and I have to gather all my strength to get myself to work and to actually work the whole day. OMG.
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