WOW - Just WOW. So he called last night to talk to me about all of this... about my reasons for breaking up with him. I was honest and upfront with him the other day about WHY. Next, he tries to tell me what he and his friends all think - as though what? They were all teaming up against me??????? He talked to his friends about it and said things like "well, WE all think" this or that about what I had told him were my reasons. He then communicated that he and his friends ALL feel I am in the wrong for feeling the way I felt last Fri night when he abandoned me to party all night long! GEEEZ! I told him flat out - that's NOT OK - this GROUP THINK mentality! I told him - look, you had told me you didn't want to stay up all night, then you did cocaine, then you promised me at 1:30-2:00 am that you would come to bed soon, then you didn't and chose to stay up for THREE more hours partying with your friends! I had to come get you at 5 am to bring you to bed. Yes, it was his best friend's bday, but what is she? 6 years old? She needs someone to hold her hand all night long?!? She's over 60 years old!!!!!!!! He couldn't just come to bed at 3 am and join me like he promised he would? Instead, he chooses to party over tending to his guest that he invited??????? He invited me to stay in a cabin overnight with he and all his friends. I did NOT anticipate an all night cocaine fest. I told him had I known that's what it was going to be, I never would have agreed to go! But, bottom line is: it shows a complete lack of consideration to abandon me like that. Had the roles been reversed, I would have joined my guest in bed at a reasonable time, not 5 am, hours after my guest had decided to go to bed! WTF?!?

Am I WRONG?????