Jak’s quote:
“ You are right, I have no problem with commitments, I have strong will, I am brave, confident, I can face challenges, I have positive mindset when I try something or interact with other people.
It just feels that this is not enough...”
That is why I don’t understand. Many people must be very blind to be unable to see all that. Or maybe, the circumstances haven’t been given so far. Or the right people haven’t appeared.
I know nowadays, with all this relevance online social communication, real social communication became harder, but still this need for connection is there.
I do understand you see face-to-face connections as the most fulfilling ones. Me too. Maybe, for people like me, online connections are the best option but it seems pointless for people who have no problem at socialising. I look and see with sadness how people walk in the streets by not caring about the world around them because they are literally with their sight on their phones. Taking selfies, recording videos of themselves while walking.
I don’t even want to think about other stuff such as, virtual reality.
Jak’s quote:
“ Well, no matter if this is all you have to say. After all, you are the only person who replies to me, so still, it may be helpful in some way.”
No. I didn’t mean that I didn’t have anything to say in general. I meant about the topic of socialising. I mean that I’d like through my supposed experience, to be able to give you some clues. But, I can’t because I consider myself socially retard.
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits.
Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance.
Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON)
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