Yes, I'm also curious about that. I have never had many good opportunities/circumstances, but still. It's interesting that this doesn't work for me.

Exactly, real life connection is still very important. I can communicate online, but sometimes you need to feel the presence of the other person. Also, there are things you would like to discuss, but you don't write them (not many in my case, I can write anything, but sometimes you don't write it). I stopped using social media for anything else that direct messages (or group chats, but now I'm not in anything active) because it was just waste of time for me, scrolling facebook or instagram.
Okay, I admit that I usually listen to music when wlaking down the street, but I never have phone in my hand.

Alright, I get that now. Well, I can't say if you are social retard or not, you don't have to share your experience. There are also other ways even concerning this topic when you are helpfull.