thanx for the comment.

but ever since i could remember i know i was gay. and of course i love loving a guy but thats not what i really want. im with a guy now and we've been happily togethor for 4 months and we havent done anything sexually and thats totally fine with me. im just with me bc he makes me feel so good about myself and everytime im around him im just so happy.
i have close friends of both genders and all my friends are great. i love them all.
and my past realationships have been with both guys and girls.
my last relationship was with agirl. and it lasted over 3 yrs. it might be surprising but we never did anything. i really dont go into a relationship for sex. i go for the person and bc i love them.
through my experience, with being with both guys and girls, i like guys alot more. i cant explain it. i just feel closer for some reason and its so much easier. its kinda hard to explain but it just feels rt.
but overall, i'll take ur advice. simply bc it'll be easier to stay locked in the closet for rt now. thanx so much and best of luck.