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Originally Posted by eskielover
You may like the work but the bottom line is even IF they were to accomodate for ASD, that would not make you fit in, it would just accomodate your not fitting in & who knows what issues that would create?
I loved my home & everything I had from my 33 years in marriage EXCEPT my happiness & peace. He tried (or so he said) to "change" but what he saw was not my reality. For me, I was the one who left because I just never wanted to fit into the life he was forcing the marriage to be & it was failing miserable even as just a business partnership. It is about knowing yourself & knowing what you are really willing to want your life to be like given who & what you are within those limitations. By forcing issues it doesn't really solve any problems & usually only creates others. My now ex tried hard to make divorce difficult/ next to impossible because he felt divorce showed him as a failure. Thing was by doing what he did he is the one who lost everything. Being wise & not what we think is "right" is usually what is best for us
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Thank you for this.
That's why I decided to submit notice. ASD aside, no one likes to constantly feel "not good enough" or question everything I do.
This is literally causing me anxiety. I don't know what to say or do...