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Oct 18, 2023, 08:26 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,078
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I'm a very trusting person, and now I'm less so.
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This is actually a good thing because now people have to PROVE that you can trust them rather than just blindly trusting.
Ugh, I lost trust when I was 17 & just graduated from high school when a long distance BF who was talking about us getting married whote me a letter saying he just got married to a girl he went to school with & a few months later wrote me that he had made a mistake marrying her. He got a letter back from me saying....."tough, you made your choice live with it". From then on I trusted no one & made sure I had my degree & my career even when I did get married & it was a good thing I dod cause I could never trust him to be financially responsible. Sadly he proved the red flags I saw before the wedding to be correct. Now when I sense red flags even with acquaintences I walk away.
It is good to look at life logically with a little emotion included for balance
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Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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