He's gone all next week. We're going to have a 10 minute check in phone call next Wednesday. I think neither of us are happy with the situation we find ourselves in. I'm still trying to figure out how we got here. He's being confusing and contradictory. He's open to hearing about any anger I have, but in the next breath he can't take anger directed at him. ???? In reality, I'm not that angry. I'm hurt, but I guess he's taking my comments as anger. I don't know what is safe to say and he feels I'm punishing him by my silence. It's a mess but I hope we can work through this somehow.