My husband and I have been together for about 11 years (only married for 2 though). When we got married we agreed that neither of us wanted kids. Recently I became pregnant (by carelessness on our part) and although I was not thrilled I eventually accepted it. My husband wanted me to have an abortion but I just couldn't.
At 9 weeks I had a miscarriage. I went to the hospital and was admitted. My husband didn't seem to care at all that I was in hospital. He didn't drive me there and only visited once. I was upset about losing the baby but what hurt even more was his total disinterest in my well-being. I am still shocked by how cold and uncaring he was.
I did ask him why he didn't care that I was in hospital and he mumbled something about it was because I was pregnant. I know he didn't want the baby but I still feel that was not the way to handle the situation. My heart is just broken by his actions and although I am trying to forgive and forget it just doesn't seem to be happening, especially since he doesn't appear to be sorry in any way.
I guess I need some help on how to handle this situation. I've tried to talk to him but he was not raised to talk about problems and just sits there not speaking when faced with an uncomfortable conversation. I do love him but I really feel that I deserve more. How do I get him to talk to me about this?