First off: YES! Someone else is l33t! Muhahaha!

Err... Yea. o_o;;;

You make sense with what you're saying, but I don't know if I have any good advice. How much do you care about your boyfriend? Would you be able to be in different places for a while?

You said you're not sacraficing getting better for anything, and it sounds like moving would make you happy which seems rather counter-productive, huh?

I'm sorry, I'm not good with employment and relationship advice. I hope someone smarter then me comes around and gives advice. >.<

Good luck, I really hope things can turn out for you.