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Originally Posted by pliepla
Doesn't a lack of sexual experience - after all, I was 23 at my first time and 25 when I started a first relationship and I have been single for more than half of my adult life - mean that I lack in experience and skill and will never be able to satisfy a woman within the expectations women have by the time they are in their forties?
Does this not mean that I will never be able to maintain a stable relationship?
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It doesn’t mean anything whatsoever. Nothing to do with satisfying anyone with some kind of special skills and certainly doesn’t mean you can’t have a relationship.
Your approach to sex is like you’d approach looking for a professional like if you are looking for a carpenter for sure you want someone with special skills and experience. If that’s how people looked for intimate partners, they’d hire sex workers.
Focus on other aspects of a relationship, get to know the person and hopefully develop feelings and things will fall into place. Women don’t go around with a sheer goal of finding skilled men to satisfy them.