They were all so very toxic. I am so glad I am no longer dealing with them or those relationships.

His mother had a mean streak in her. I did not appreciate many of her nasty comments to me.

Once she had said "why are you so mean to my son?" !!!!!!!!

ME??????? I was mean to him??????

How about the fact that HE abused ME for YEARS, cut me down constantly with criticisms and harmful/hurtful comments and so-called "jokes"?????

How about the fact that her so-called PERFECT, SWEET and MOST LOVING son screamed at me for the first two years of our marriage????????

How about the fact that he cheated on me, lied to me constantly, and did sneaky things behind my back????????

How about ALL THAT?????

I wish I could have said all this to her in the moment. All I could muster was "I am not mean to him".