I can't understand any adult wanting someone else to do their laundry or other basic life/self-care task on their behalf. I would find it supremely frustrating and infantilising. Men babies are the worst. Don't people want control over these (albeit minor) aspects of their life? I mean, if someone is significantly disabled and unable to complete such tasks, that is different, but even then independence is usually a hard fought for goal. Aren't dependent men embarrassed to be so seemingly incapable?