Guy #1.

It turns out he was angry that I dated someone else, or got hurt by that, and by the fact that I bailed on his nephew's benefit gathering and our hotel stay the week before we were supposed to go.

After I broke up with guy #2, guy #1 had told me that he wants to see me at least once per week. that he likes me a lot, that he thinks about me a lot, and that he can't wait to see me. Then, when we do see each other, he acted the opposite way! He was distant and kept walking away from me each time I approached him to talk, and he blew me off!

The next day, he revealed to me how upset he was over the fact that I bailed on him to date someone else, and that I bailed on our hotel plans the week before.

Well, WTF do you expect when you don't communicate with me at all in between times of seeing each other? I told him this. I told him WHY I chose to date someone else. He wasn't available, so I dated another man who was!
WTF????

And, WHY tell me that you can't wait to see me, just two nights before we see each other again, and then you give me the cold shoulder? His sudden change in behavior & attitude was contradictory, surprising, and unsettling.

WTF is going on here?????

So, I called a psychic. And the info I received was shocking. She said this guy is a narcissist and to RUN AWAY. She said that he is very controlling and manipulative, that he will make you bend over backwards apologizing for something minor, that he is passive aggressive, and many more details.

Yes, I call psychics for insights from time to time. And yes, I do take all that they tell me with a grain of salt. Often they've been right on, and just as often, they've been wrong.

But, this gave me some important and valuable information which ultimately reminds me to proceed with extreme caution.

If I am not seeing red flags when there ARE red flags, I need to begin paying greater attention. I get distracted by other life issues and can miss these things.

This was a huge bummer to receive such negative info on a man whom I've liked since August.

BUT, IF there are red flags, I'd much rather see them now than later and allow myself to be available for the RIGHT man.