You know people can present themselves in allot of different ways. And sometimes you run into individuals who think labels make them immune to accountability. In short, they're full time crybabies who judge the world while they think they should get a fulltime pass to act the fool. I would not cater to this person or make efforts to understand that person's issues when they've gone to great lengths to disrespect you. Do with this person like you would anyone who is disrespectful and walk away. There's never a good reason to reward and/or understand ignorant behavior.