EJ711,

Kudos to you for trying. As I recall on the special, if you don't get to these children by a certain age, I believe its somewhere around 6 years of age, they will be forever unable to form relationships. If they are not spoken to by 12, they will be unable to speak in sentences. Since its cruel to subject children to this type of experiment they're forced to find children that have already been neglected and speculate.

I'm so sorry that the girl you adopted didn't work out. We'd like to think that with a lot of love and patience we can fix any problem. The sad part is that it is often too late. I can't even begin to imagine your heartbreak. (((((EJ11))))) We need more people like you in the world!