I took a shower and went out to dinner for h's birthday. But Victoria had a meltdown and we had to leave. Then she's coming from a place that she feels she can't do anything about it. Her psychiatrist doesn't want to do anything about it either. Yet she somehow has to be able to work. She can't even shower without a meltdown. There were to many people there nevermind we were 45 minutes outside the city and she's the one that wants to live in the heart of the city.