Patbunny1, I am sorry that you feel taken adavantage of by your friend but I am so proud of you for recognizing that you deserver better. I have been right were you are at. Feelings of rejection can hurt deeply, so deeply. I give you a hug and say, listen to your wise heart and be your authentic self and be okay with being a one man girl. There is someone out there that is a one girl man looking for you.