hi Whirling Dervish.
No. he hasn't been cheating if that is what u mean. he just wants me to be involved in that stuff. and for a long time i held myself back, saying no, i am not comfortable. and over time, since i have nothing else to do other than stay with him, i have said yes. but i dont enjoy them. at least they were with people we had no idea who they are. and this time, its his best friend. that is why i am worried.

to every one who have replied to me. forgive me i have no idea how to tag some one in a reply