We had some mutual friends but the relationship was over. He moved on. I didnt realize until i went no contact with my family in late middle-age how much they had interfered in my high school and college romances. Which of course is when normal people make their matches. My brother wanted me to find someone HE liked, which how gay was that? My parents just wanted me to be an old maid so i would take care of them in their old age. They knew how to shame me and it worked.

I know you dont want to hear this, but dude, cut your hair. I would advise this to a male or a female! The 1960's are over. A short haircut looks smart and sexy. Even Mark Harmon could use a good trim, IMO. And second, c'mon. It's at least 10 women for every man at our age, i dont know what the actual stats are.