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Old Oct 30, 2023, 09:10 PM
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Hi @Blah nlah - welcome to MSF. I am sorry you are facing challenges that seem difficult. That must be rough on you.

What I do is try to use my posting experiences on MSF as practice for how I can treat people in real life. I try to avoid saying things that people in real life will react negatively to. It is not easy but speech is such an easy way for me to wreck relationships. I try to avoid that as much as I can by watching my thoughts and editing them just the way I edit a post here on MSF before I hit the Submit Reply button. It takes practice, but I can overcome some of the challenges I face. But I have no control over other people, only how I react to what they do and say. That is what I focus on.
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