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Old Oct 31, 2023, 11:05 PM
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@unaluna thanks, I am trying to help him realize what his post#21 is saying and that he is actually turning a corner in seeing the truth about his wife. He is not a failure for loving her, instead she is the one that is failing not only him but her own children and they are all suffering from his wife’s choice to embrace her abuse of alcohol.

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I'm scared. I'm scared because I haven't had stability in a long long time, and these past couple of months were excellent.
This is what he is saying in how her absence allowed him to see what stability is like verses living in constant survival mode.

Last edited by Open Eyes; Oct 31, 2023 at 11:24 PM.
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