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Try just chilling about it & stop looking so hard & wanting to make something work. When we meet people we need to get to know them & sense a compatibility on both sides before trying to go out & make a relationship out of it. If you are using a date to determine compatibility & the other person determins it is not a compatible relationship you will continue to be disappointed.
Compatibility has a lot more to it than just being able to bring something to a relationship because it is not all about you..it is about what they want too. I dated lots of guys in college who I knew I wasn't compatible with on the first or 2nd date & that was guys I got to know around campus before a date. That is just life. Just because you are attracted to someone doesn't mean there will be compatibility as you get to know them. Better to know upfront than to waste time with someone.
Dating is good because it gives you a chance to learn what personality traits & values you like, dislike in others & what is or is not compatible to you
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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