Thanks for replying

I agree that compatibility is what is important, that's actually why I write here.

You know, the problem is, I actually give it time to know get to know the other person. I don't push to make it work quick. When we are not compatible from the start that's alright, but the experience I'm talking about happens later, when it seems that we share common values. Sometimes, they directly tell me that we share them... That's why I'm curious what to do because even then, it never works out...

Besides, I know what my values are, so it's not like I am okay with everything