fathers day use to be really hard for me... it still is, really... i am binging too free... i know i shouldn't... but it doesn't seem to help much... we do a father's day picnic at school for the kids and dad's ... it use to be almost impossible for me to get through... but i think things got a bit better for me when i remind myself that not all dad's hurt their kids... and i look at the joy in the eyes of the children who have dad's that care enough to come and spend 3 hours with them.... my step dad was a really good man he passed away 2 years ago... i am trying to focus on him and my sons this year... and am praying that they will be the fathers to their children that the God intended them to be... that the abuse will end with me and my kids... and not go on to another generation... take care freewill i am thinking about you...lyn