Wow, two people replying to my thread. That's so... Unusual.
It was several months I saw the therapists.
My relationships haven't last a minute. I've never been in one. They ended the moment they started. That's why I seek some advice because I have no pleasant experience to build upon (yet, I know what I want). I can't be sure about all of them, but I know some of them really were looking for a relationship...
Also, some great wtf moments are, when you go on a date, you both enjoy it, she tells you she wants to see you again and so do you. And on the second date, you find out that she already is in a relationship...
And even if they lied, still, it doesn't change the fact, that I have found only those who are unavailable...