Itīs not a matter of control or force, Iīve talked to my social worker several times and told her what I need and what works for me. Itīs not to force her or to control her.
What should I do, should I magically need what they offer me, only because thatīs what they offer? As you describe it, itīs like feelings about different things doesnīt belong in this only because itīs an employment program.
As an example: I need my social worker to understand how I feel about being in a large group of colleagues or how I feel abour working in an office landscape. Feelings I have about that could be perhaps feeling anxiety, feeling left out, feeling stressed and so on.
Then, according to your logic, if I tell my social worker this and needs her to listen and to understand those situations, then Iīm controlling her or Iīm forcing her to listen. It makes no sense at all to me. Sheīs there for me and of course feelings will be included even if the program is about getting a job, you donīt go to work and leave your feelings at home.
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Originally Posted by Nammu
I think this is another case of you having unrealistic expectations and wanting what you want despite the fact thats not what they offer. You again are trying to control others to force them to give you what you want. Wants are not needs and a government program for even sick people is not going to cater to their wants. They are there to help to get employment. They focus on your needs, not your wants.
Even on here you are trying to force people to say what you want to hear. People are saying your feelings are not the goal of an employment office, not even one for sick people.
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