I'm working on getting another job and learning about and recognizing his behaviors has really made me see how ridiculous a person he is so they're almost becoming comical. The thing is, any resistance and he becomes a weepy mess. He's terrified I'll leave because his whole plan is for me to take care of him until he dies. The irony is that before he sabotaged my life, I would have had the means and been willing to do just that. Now, I have no love left for him and don't care what happens to him. The instant he actually needs me, I'm gone. My current plan is to find a job, save every penny, get rid of or store as many of my belongings as possible and just be ready to bolt when it gets ugly.