My stages:
Oblivion
Pain
Keeping it in but journaling
Crossing boundaries
Sharing with others
Realizing somethings wrong
Trying to show it
Falling into depression
Seeking therapy
Taking medication
Losing weight
Getting badgered by mom and sis
Leaving and setting a boundary
Feeling emotions
Facing ridicule
The collapse
Regaining a new sense of self
Hoping for future