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Old Nov 06, 2023, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted by patbunny1 View Post
@Tart Cherry Jam
i used to be a hopeless romantic at one point. but now i do not believe in those things. i'm the one who asked out from him thinking he's teh one and now i'm the one that's suffering. i'm way too attached after 4 years of living together and i have completely forgot what life bfor this even was like. and now cant live alone without him. i love him, i do. but, uk what i mean. i dont even think i can think straight anymore
That is not a healthy life to be living. It is already taking its toll on your ability to think rationally. I lived in a bad marriage for 33 years....I can tell you....living alone is so much better than living in a relationship where you can't think straight....that kind of relationship will destroy you. I doubt that is even REAL love but probably more like co-dependency. Don't screw up the rest of your life.....4 years is nothing compared to the damage staying can do
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