I tried it. It took me a long time because I didn't really know what to say. I'd never thought about it. Of course, it doesn't fix everything or change anything. But I noticed that in both letters I'd mentioned how parts of who I am like being hopeful and a hard worker don't have anything to do with what my dream in life was, or what's happened to me. It's just who I am. Sometimes it's hard to see or believe in that when I get tangled up in the mess of it all. Thank you for your idea