I was recently in an on/off relationship while in school with another girl. We were on/off for two years but during our off times, she would make me feel so horrible that I would want to kill myself. During our last two turns of the dating wheel, I was getting councilling for my eating disorder and was hoping for some sort of support from her. When my counciller had convinced me to eat lunch for the first time in three months, I got sick immediately after and she told all of my friends that I was faking just it get away from her even though she went in teh bathroom and saw me being sick for herself. When we would get back together though, I would be so happy that I would do anything to keep her with me. It just pushed my ED into overdrive. Was this an emotionally abusive relationship and was exactly is emotional abuse? What can be done about it?