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Old Nov 09, 2023, 03:06 AM
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Wanting someone you love to be happy doesn't mean that you go along with every fool idea that comes into his head. It sounds like he's testing what you'll tolerate. Letting that girl in the bed was ridiculous. That was him checking to see how big a fool you are.

You have to put your foot down. A guy in a relationship can not have a female friend who is so close that she shows up to crash at your place. Her getting in bed with you is utterly ridiculous. This "friend" is way too dependent on your guy. Tell your man he is to never, ever do that again.

I think it is a big mistake to live with a man who is not sure he wants to be monogamous. If that's how he is, you are headed for heartbreak.
Thanks for this!
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