I would feel hurt, too, like I'd been used.

Out of curiosity, did you ever call her?

What did you two talk about, generally, over these past 3 years?

If you feel like re-initiating the calls, would you feel comfortable speaking to her about why she stopped calling? Did she explicitly say she was fed up or something? Would you call her yourself?

It must indeed be awkward at work...


Sorry to hear you're having a health issue.

Hope you feel better soon.