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Originally Posted by TheGal
I would feel hurt, too, like I'd been used.
Out of curiosity, did you ever call her?
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Not once. A few months back I made that point, hard, not sure she heard the point.
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What did you two talk about, generally, over these past 3 years?
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Work, but more recently she wanted to talk about personal lives which don't. But our work has diverged and she is doing different things than me.
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If you feel like re-initiating the calls, would you feel comfortable speaking to her about why she stopped calling? Did she explicitly say she was fed up or something? Would you call her yourself?
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I do not want to continue with the calls because I personally do not think it is wise to talk every night, and I have made this point many times. We just run out of things to say and I might want to do other things. But, I find it annoying that now that I am struggling with something she is outie. She didn't say anything but said she was calling up old friends to see if they could do things with her.
She also calls now when she knows I have to work. And she calls me when I am on the train. This means... she can talk, but I can't. Because our conversation can be overheard. The moment I make it to my car she has to go.
Irritated. She doesn't know how to end it.